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" Whether I shall turn out to be the hero of my own life, or whether that station will be held by anybody else, these pages must show..."-David Copperfield by Charles Dickens

Wednesday, April 24, 2013

What My Mother Gave Me


If you’re searching for a Mother’s Day present, buy What My Mother Gave Me: Thirty-One Women on the Gifts That Mattered the Most (Algonquin, April 2nd 2013). It’s a compilation put together by Elizabeth Benedict and features stories by Lisa See, Joyce Carol Oates, Jean Hanff Korelitz and more.

What My Mother Gave Me


I was scared that it would be “feel-good”, story after story that were more forced than genuine. My fears were unfounded and What My Mother Gave Me is real and touching. Some of the writers chose to talk about tangible gifts that their mothers gave them and others wrote about gifts of compassion, strength and ways of thinking. Lisa See wrote about her mother’s determination to be published, which was something that See also inherited. Joyce Carol Oates wrote a short essay about the quilt that her mother gave her, who writes, “There is nothing so comforting as wearing clothes your mother has sewn or knitted for you.”

Not all of the women featured in What My Mother Gave Me had happy childhoods but even they found gifts that they received from their mothers. The essays were real, raw and honest. The difficulties were stated and the happiness were written about in a way that was neither overly sentimental or mushy. It’s due to this that What My Mother Gave Me felt so relatable. It portrays the beauty in mother-daughter relationships and it’s something that everyone should read.

Friday, April 19, 2013

Prayers

I honestly cannot contain the sheer shock that I felt when I heard last night that there was a shooter on the loose at MIT and that one hour after the shoots were fired, a police officer was down. It was 11:30 PM and I was on Facebook when a friend of mine shared the news. 

All they knew then was that the there were shots fired at Building 32 on the campus. They warned students to stay inside since it wasn't clear what happened. Another hour later, a police office was down. 

Sometimes, I wonder what has this world come down to? First the horrific Boston Marathon explosions, then the explosions in West Texas and now this? I love Boston with all my heart and my prayers go out to everyone. 

It's disturbing, it's scary, it's intimidating. Right after the Boston Marathon explosions, warnings were sent out to avoid New York  and DC. I was about to go to both places and for a moment, I was actually afraid. 

The fact that these things happened, one after another, is shocking. I know people who are going to go to Boston-area colleges and I can't imagine how shocked they were last night when they received text messages to stay out of the city because a shooter was on the loose. 

The first shooting in the news that I can remember distinctly was the one at Virginia Tech. I remember being in school and the teachers freaking out. This was before everyone decided to be attached to their phones since class was too boring and I could just remember sitting there shocked. 

A friend of mine posted on Facebook that he picked up his brother in Cambridge, MA minutes before the shooting. Talk about timing. My friend is on short break in the greater Boston area and I hope she's okay. 

My thoughts are with everyone in Boston and Texas right now. In moments like these, we see the good in others. Stay strong everyone. 



Saturday, April 13, 2013

Reasons Why I've Been Sporadic With Posting

I've been quite sporadic with blogging lately, with literally less than 10 posts per month. This is not okay (but I don't think it's going to change any time soon, with major testing coming up next month). 

Anyway, here's a list of excuses. 

1. School
I don't know why but this year is like, really bad for some odd reason. Kelly posted a post titled, "How to Graduate College without Reading" and I was reading it like, "Yep... #mylife" WHERE DID THE TIME GO?! 


2. Work
If I'm going to talk about school, you can bet (okay, I already said it so you can't bet) that I'm going to talk about work. Stress levels have increased. As I said above, I don't know why work is so bad this year. 

3. Technology hates me

But I love technology! I was talking to my friend yesterday and she's like, "You're the type of person who needs to be connected." Probably. Technology is not working with me though. Things keep breaking down when I need them (laptop #1, laptop #2, phone, and iPod,  I am looking at you) and I have to spend hours stalking tech forums, thinking "techguy1243487483, WHERE IS THE SOLUTION TO YOUR PROBLEM (THAT I ALSO HAVE?!". If this computer breaks down as well, I don't know what I'm going to do.  Probably this: 

4. Lost of Interest (Temporarily)
When you've been doing something (albeit, not that well) for four years, you tend to get bored with it after a while. This is me. While I do like blogging, I'm just not feeling it right now. 

When all these things combine, I just feel like this: 


Honestly though, I feel like Vladimir and Estragon in Waiting for Godot, where they're just making excuses.




I'll be back (like that one person who just comes back. And back. And back... eventually.)




Friday, April 5, 2013

Indie Bookstore Haul

As I mentioned earlier, I’ve been obsessed with my local independent bookstore and the last time I was there, I ended up buying stuff (as usual).





Tao Te Ching by Lao Tsu (25th Anniversary Edition, Vintage Books Edition [Random House])
I read a translation published by Barnes and Noble around five years ago, when I was into Chinese religion/philosophy. Tao Te Ching is the classic Chinese text that is fundamental to Daoism/Taoism.  Since then, my interest in it has subsided a bit. It didn’t stop me, however,  from picking up a copy of this when I saw it. It’s paired with black and white film photographs and the Chinese version done in calligraphy. I like to read it when I feel really calm.

A Literary Paris by Jamie Cox Robertson (Adams Media)

This combines my love for independent bookstores (where I bought it), reading and traveling. It has excerpts from famous works of literature (Hemingway, Collete, Sedaris and more) about Paris. It also contains quotes by famous authors about Paris and some historical background on the places that are described in the excerpt. Instant love! Plus, it’s a fabric covered hardcover, which makes it even better.

While Mortals Sleep by Kurt Vonnegut

It's a collection of Vonnegut's previously unpublished short stories. I bought this for my friend’s birthday because she’s a Vonnegut fan. I have no idea if she’s read this so hopefully she hasn’t!  *crosses fingers*

I joked that I’ll probably end up going broke if I keep going to my local indie bookstore and buying books every time but my friend replied with “Isn’t that a good thing? You’re gaining knowledge”, to which I have to agree.

What books have you bought lately? Have you been to your local independent bookstore? 

Saturday, March 30, 2013

Things I'm Into Lately

Things have been quite busy lately and it shows. Once second semester started, I thought, “Great! I can relax!". Ha! I’m busy with work and school but it’s finally spring break so I can relax (kind of)!

I thought I’d do a post of the things that I’ve been into lately (maybe this will turn into a semi-regular thing? We’ll see).



Typography I’ve been super into graphic design (I think I mentioned this in an earlier post) lately but most of all, typography. Now that I’m thinking about it, I’ve been into graphic design for quite some time, but to varying degrees. It started around the time that I started this blog (not related to my starting a blog, though) when I finally got Photoshop. I’ve made some hideous things but I’ve been improving. Some of my favorite blogs are EmmaDime, DesignLoveFest, and Pugly Pixel (so many resources, tutorials and how-to’s. If you’re only looking for one design blog to follow, this is it.).

Travel Sites My friend and I have a long bucket list. We’ve accomplished approximately 0.2% of it and it just keeps on growing. I’m quite into traveling and so is she so I’ve been surfing travel sites. This is the one thing that must get done on our bucket list that never seems to get shorter.

Independent Bookstores My first foray into my local independent bookstore was chronicled partially here, and I’ve been going loyally to it ever since. It’s on my places-to-go list every time I go downtown and the sale section is just amazing. Plus, there are tons of hipster/intellectual books on poetry and archaic topics. The atmosphere is quite nice, too and the employees are quite nice. I was looking for a book that I saw earlier to for a friend because I thought she’d like it and I forgot the title. I described the book cover in vague descriptors (“It was feminist-y about bodies or something like that? It had a vintage-y feel to it? ) and the employee immediately found it.

Frantically Searching for a Replacement for Google Reader  It’s not okay that Google is pulling the plug on Google Reader. I’ve been using Reader for the past seven years, Google. It’s been integrated into my routine. This is not okay.

What are you into lately?

Thursday, March 28, 2013

The Promise of Stardust

The Promise of Stardust by Priscille Sibley (William Morrow (HarperCollins)) is among one of the best books I’ve read this year. It’s even more surprising that it’s a debut novel. It’s delicate, well-written and heart-wrenching.





Matt Beaulieu and Elle McClure have known each other since they were young. When Matt was two and held Elle, who was a baby, in his arms, he spoke his first words. When Matt was seventeen, he kissed Elle under a blanket of shining stars. Years later, they’ve married each other. However, an accident leaves Elle brain-dead. Matt’s ready to sign the papers to pull Elle off of life support, something that was Elle’s wish. Elle watched her mother, who was ridden with cancer, die a slow death and vowed that she would never be in the same position. Matt discovers that Elle’s pregnant and his choice becomes less clear. His family is split about what to do and so is Elle’s family. Soon, it spirals into a legal battle, driven by principle, and goes beyond the McClure’s and Beaulieu’s.

On the summary alone, The Promise of Stardust seems like a novel that would get lost between medical ethos, varying lines of right and wrong. However, it doesn’t. It presents a story that captivates the readers, that goes beyond life or death. It’s nuanced, it’s delicate and it sidesteps the question of right or wrong, presenting a story that readers can sympathize with. Both sides of the question are presented but as the story shows, there is no right answer. In the end, Matt’s still not sure if he’s made the right decision.

The paperback edition of The Promise of Stardust contains an additional section that contains an interview with the author, Priscille Sibley. In it, she mentions that she’s a fan of Jodi Picoult and I thought, “Yes! The Promise of Stardust is quite like Picoult.” That said however, The Promise of Stardust isn’t a mimicry of Jodi Picoult’s novel. It’s different, refreshing and shines on its own.

While writing this, I’m trying to find a passage I really like, but in reality, I flip to any page and I find something I like. So here I am, sharing a non-spoiler passage, with Matt sharing a memory.

“Mom insisted Dad’s funeral would not be morbid. Word went around that we were each to come up with five stories to tell about Dad-or else. Funny stories were best, but any nonsappy tale would do. I found out more things about my father in those two days than I’d known in my lifetime. For six months, when he was in elementary school, he ate nothing but peanut-butter sandwiches. In high school he and his father helped build a house for a family who lost everything after their furnace exploded…. I found myself wondering: Why is it we know so little about the people we love until they are gone?”

I’ve already reread The Promise of Stardust and will be following Sibley’s career.

Have you read any recent debut novels? If so, what are they? 

Monday, March 18, 2013

Gevalia's Book Club Commercial

I was watching TV the other day and saw this commercial for Gevalia's (Swedish company) coffee featuring a book club! It reminded me of Velveeta's book club commercial, which Allison (The Book Wheel) posted about earlier this year. 

Gevalia's commercial compares its coffee to "losing itself in a great book". I don't like coffee that much but if it's comparison holds true, Gevalia must be some really great coffee. 


What are your thoughts on this commercial?